This was written for the wedding of my oldest son last month. Life…
Home
the man on the radio
said children first learn
there are three dimensions-
height and width and, of course
length, like a shoebox, or a house.
and only later do they learn
of the fourth dimension, time
the one that lends meaning
to all the others – standing here today
as we watch you prepare
to begin building your life together
I am acutely conscious of time
of how the immediacy of youth
can ripen of its own accord
into patience
of how we begin by thinking that love
is something that happens to us
like a bee sting, or an unexpected fall
and only later do we see that love
is something organic, that if we’re lucky
is something we might grow
to inhabit, like an atmosphere
or more, something that might
come to infuse us, like blood.
the older I become, the fewer things
I take to be certain. But some few things
I do know. I know that keeping score
is never helpful. I know that love
for one another is cultivated
through an appreciation of small things.
I know that even amid the uncertain winds
of this life, in this you might find shelter —
that if you are willing to work together
with patience, and with love,
and perhaps with some small measure of grace,
you must certainly succeed
in constructing of your lives a home.
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